DON'T LIE ABOUT PAST DRUG USE

Q: I want to be a state trooper, but they give a poly graph test and
ask about drug use. I've never abused drugs, but years ago, when
young and dumb, I tried marijuana.

Should I lie during that part of the test or tell the truth and hope
they forgive it as a stupid mistake in my past?

A: Don't even try to lie. Tell the truth. You're not alone.

Q: Recently, my boss gave me an unexpected, decent bonus. He then
told me to re mind him in four months about my salary review. Be
cause that time is now, I won der what is the best way to bring up the subject.

A: The best way to bring it up is with confidence. After all, he
suggested it. In a very professional way, just remind him of the
promised review.

And tell him you're looking forward to it!

Q: My sister has told me about openings at the com pany where she
works. I have applied there for several jobs that have become
available, but I've never gotten a reply, much less an interview.
Should I continue to apply or job-hunt elsewhere?

A: I think you know the answer. If you don't get any response, you're
just spinning your wheels. Direct your energy elsewhere.

Q: Is it OK to tell my new boss she's doing an absolutely sensational
job? We're a tough bunch to handle, but she has very quietly stepped
in and has taken control. Will it sound too much like suck ing up if
I praise her in this way?

A: Whatever it sounds like, a pat on the back always feels very good.
Tell her what you've observed in a very businesslike way: Make it
brief, don't gush - and then change the subject.