GIRL, 10, DARED TO SCREAM

It was the kind of real-life publicity money couldn't buy: A
10-year-old Newport Beach girl named Amber escaped a would-be abductor
near her home last weekend. Then, with TV cameras rolling, she
credited the DARE officer at her school for teaching her what to do.

You can bet hundreds of DARE police officers throughout the Southland
were whooping when they saw that.

"You hope what you say in class might someday save a child's life,"
said one DARE officer, Tom Monarch. "But to actually hear her say it,
that's just a great feeling."

If you have youngsters in school, you know that DARE stands for Drug
Abuse Resistance Education and that it's taught by police officers on
school campuses. In the classes for younger kids, the officers
emphasize personal safety more than drug abuse.

DARE, begun by former Los Angeles Police Chief Darryl Gates in 1983,
has its share of critics. That's partly because it's hard to measure
its effectiveness. How do you quantify the number of times a student
turns down a drug offer--or a ride in a stranger's vehicle?

But DARE's popularity has mushroomed. Growing from 10 DARE officers
its first year, its 17-week courses are now taught to 35 million
students nationwide.

"How well does it work? That's a crapshoot; we can never say for
sure," said Lynne Bloomberg, who coordinates the DARE program for the
Newport Mesa Unified School District. "But I'm wholeheartedly
convinced it's worth doing."

Just ask Amber. She'd just gotten off her bicycle to pick flowers in
her Eastbluff neighborhood when someone pulled up in a truck, opened
the door and tried to grab her.

Amber said she knew from her DARE officer not to get close enough that
he could reach her and that she should scream and run like crazy to
get away.

Something else her DARE officer taught her: Put personal safety first,
but when possible, try to get a physical description. How's this for
Amber's efforts:

The man was white, in his 30s, with short brown hair and a tattoo on
his left shoulder. He was driving a green late-model Toyota pickup,
and his license plate contained the letters PGE.

"She did great," Monarch said. You can excuse his being so proud.
Amber is one of Monarch's DARE students.

What Monarch and other DARE officers emphasize are the safety tips you
might want to discuss with your children.

Here are some of the other tips:

* You're separated from your parents at a store, so you head to the
parking lot, thinking you'll find them. Wrong. Stay in one spot; your
parents will likely come back there looking for you.

* You're lost at the airport. Look for a uniformed
person.

* Beware of some phony messages or questions that abductors use: "Your
parents have been in an accident. The hospital sent me to get you." Or
"Have you seen a little brown puppy?" Or "You know which way to
Katella Avenue?" An unsuspecting child moves close enough just to say
no--and gets grabbed.

Here's another tip: Come up with a code word with your children. If an
emergency does arise, make sure someone you send to get your children
knows what the code word is.

A final word from Monarch: "I tell the students, if a stranger approaches
you, use your talents. You're loud and you're fast. So run and scream.
They love to act that out."

For young Amber, it wasn't just acting.