Break-Ups
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» A_Princess replied on Mon Nov 24, 2003 @ 5:37pm |
 Coolness: 62560 | Hang on to that stuff. Put it in a bag and shove it under your bed. Take it out in a few months, even a year. Look at it and you'll see how you feel towards him then. Then You can decide.
And for now. You'll feel like this for at least a month. And it'll suck ass. And then one day you wake up and realise, Hey!! I survived it. And it'll feel awesome. Seriously. But it takes time. I've been single since July and I still find myself talking about that person. You have to ween yourself off someone, can't just cut them out. But eventually u will notice yourself becoming stronger, in the meantime just feel sorry for youself. Wollow. Eat chocolate. And one day you'll feel so disgusted you'll snap out of it and you'll know its time to move on. Goodluck :) |
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» Miss_Amanda replied on Mon Nov 24, 2003 @ 6:36pm |
 Coolness: 161260 | Sawah my mum told me you called yesterday
I called you back today but Angel said you were still in school. you know I'm here for you- I've been hurt pretty badly and I can hardly imagine what you're going through. I miss you and I love you and we can mope together cuz I'm a pro at that. |
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» little_sarah replied on Mon Nov 24, 2003 @ 8:24pm |
 Coolness: 122155 | mini- i need to mope with you. it sucks. i need a strong girl to set me straight again... i feel so weak and stupid.
i was okay at school, the second i got on the metro i started getting all teary again, i got home and was on the verge or a breakdown again... my house reminds me of him. i'm okay with people, but alone, and here, it's something else. |
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» Purple_Lee replied on Mon Nov 24, 2003 @ 8:42pm |
 Coolness: 239335 | okay lets face it breakup's suck moneky's dicks...no one wins andf both parties are hurt. Dealing with things
- Avoid Drugs(very bad ) - Avoid Therapists - Embrace Mastubation (helps get passed somethings) - "REBOUND"(touchie subject rebound sex can be fun, but be honest with person before things get seroius) posted by Mico the best thing that keeped me in balance was spending time with close friends and trying to move on. Time is the best healer around. I was fucked up when my enagment brokeup when i was 23. Time healed my broken heart...yes i don't let down my guard as easy i used to, but that is life. Sarah i am sorry that this event has happened. Lee |
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» wisp replied on Mon Nov 24, 2003 @ 8:51pm |
 Coolness: 98035 | i think time helps.
last week i was going insane. this week its faded so much, even without thinking about another relationship. i think the only bad thing is seeing that person. now thats what fucks you up. anyways in my case. |
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» little_sarah replied on Mon Nov 24, 2003 @ 9:17pm |
| Coolness: 122155 | i was afraid of that... i have to see him actually. i almost want to, just because i haven't since things were great... |
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» wisp replied on Mon Nov 24, 2003 @ 10:31pm |
| Coolness: 98035 | i always want to.
like i wanna hurt myself almost. i think the best thing is not seeing them. but its hard to do. cos i almost dont wanna not see them. |
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» djAmalgam replied on Tue Nov 25, 2003 @ 8:49am |
| Coolness: 106505 | Something I've thought of recently and experienced first hand many times, especially of late: Don't rely on other people to make you happy. Find something that makes you happy and do it. |
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» wisp replied on Tue Nov 25, 2003 @ 9:31am |
| Coolness: 98035 | ignore this person, do everything in your power to lose contact and avoid any situations where you will see him. |
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» little_sarah replied on Tue Nov 25, 2003 @ 11:41am |
| Coolness: 122155 | or carry a golf club around incase i accidently run into him and have the urge to hit him in the nuts |
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» Screwhead replied on Tue Nov 25, 2003 @ 11:50am |
 Coolness: 686305 | Originally posted by LITTLE SARAH...
or carry a golf club around incase i accidently run into him and have the urge to hit him in the nuts Well, that's obviously a given. At least you seem to be on the right path to recovery. Gratuitous violence to the testicles of the one responsible is all a part of the healing process. |
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» Phoenix replied on Tue Nov 25, 2003 @ 11:53am |
 Coolness: 82405 | As a general rule it's always good to forgive but never forget.
Even if you've lost everything nobody can ever take away your memories... |
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» daFTWin replied on Tue Nov 25, 2003 @ 1:30pm |
 Coolness: 277150 | Sarah, I dont think anyone can tell you exactly how to get ver heart break. To you, ur relationship and the feelings involved are undescribable to others, I find feelings are one of the hardest things to decribe. But you arent weak. He just has posetion of your heart, but you'll get it back. He will always own a piece of your heart. Your first 'REAL' love often does that, but you'll move on.
I know we were supposed to hang out around now, and im here for you. Msg me, or I'll call you. |
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» mdc replied on Tue Nov 25, 2003 @ 2:01pm |
| Coolness: 149530 | Originally posted by LITTLE SARAH...
or carry a golf club around incase i accidently run into him and have the urge to hit him in the nuts as much as you think this would make you feel better, after hitting said person in the sub-cockal area, youd feel even worse... youd just think to yourself that you hurt the person you love and youll feel worse... i think that as much as you woudnt want to see the person, you should face him... show him youre fine and DONT DONT DONT DONT think this is your fault!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! its not!!! fuck! dont DARE think that if you had acted differently, things would be better.. they wouldnt be Know that what happened happened and could not have happened any other way and the blame game, dont play it Its NOT your fault that this jackass broke your heart... i know thats what youre thinking... but youre wrong if it seems im lingering on this point, its because its the most relevant and difficult to get into your head... its not your fault he broke up with you (and yes, what i went through seems to be exactly like what youre going through... but look at me now, Im happy! Im GROOD! you will be too... just wait, youll see) |
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» PoiSoNeD_CaNdY replied on Tue Nov 25, 2003 @ 4:32pm |
 Coolness: 92405 | I really don't know if I can offer any words beyond the great advice that was already said, but I'll try my best..
Accept the impermanancy of life and everything within it. View your relationship as a stage that has come to an end, but be thankful that you were able to love and learn and grow during your time together. Then release the past from your mind. Embrace your newfound independence and the vast horizon of possibility that stretches before you. Treasure your friends and the mutual support you offer each other. Whatever you do, don't bottle up your feelings..release them and move on. |
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» Omni replied on Tue Nov 25, 2003 @ 5:01pm |
 Coolness: 88290 | Originally posted by LITTLE SARAH...I WANT TO WORK THINGS OUT SO MUCH.. HE'S NOT INTERESTED, HE "DOESNT' WANT A GIRLFRIEND RIGHT NOW- IT TAKES UP TOO MUCH OF HIS TIME
I know EXACTLY what this is. It's been almost two weeks now since my girlfriend and I broke up after a year and a half together. She still loves me (apparently) but she's too busy with "life" for a love relationship. I think it's a good idea to see the other person less for a little while, but you don't have to stop seeing him completely. There's no reasons for you not to be very good friends afterwards. Also, you can try to see things in a positive way. Don't feel sad about "losing" the person, feel happy that you've had this person in your life for all that time. Now that you have all this time in your hands, you have so many possibilities. You have time for so many projects and time to catch up with those friends. ;) Good luck with everything.... I know what it is... |
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