What Would You Do If....
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» The_ILL_NaNa replied on Sat Oct 18, 2003 @ 12:37pm |
 Coolness: 38760 | You and your BF/GF have a mutual friend. The 3 of you are the greatest of friends. One day the friend calls you and starts telling you off. Why? He states that people have told him that you were telling them stuff about him and his personal life. You know this is not true, and you explain that to him, but he chooses to ingnore the fact that you did not say anything. He also chooses to never talk to you again, begin disliking you, and end the friendship that you guys had.
If you were the BF/GF of the person that this happen to, would you still be friends with this guy, after he really hurt someone close to you? Would you still hang out with him? Would you still hang out with the people that made the stuff up and told him about it to make him hate your GF/BF? Would you still hold the same respect for the guy and the people that made the lies up after hurting your BF/GF? What would you do? |
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» BA_Baracus replied on Sat Oct 18, 2003 @ 12:42pm |
 Coolness: 121945 | no |
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» mdc replied on Sat Oct 18, 2003 @ 12:45pm |
| Coolness: 149725 | i would go on some sort of murderous rampage.... of course "murderous" is a metaphor for bitching everyone out until they shut up and stoppped lying so damn much |
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» somekid replied on Sat Oct 18, 2003 @ 12:47pm |
 Coolness: 85915 | I don't think your friend should be catagorised as mature just old! |
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» Oliver_TwisteD replied on Sat Oct 18, 2003 @ 1:08pm |
 Coolness: 86595 | well, i'm not sure as to the specifics of your situation, but i do know i have a lot of good friends who hate each other~ |
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» Miss_Amanda replied on Sat Oct 18, 2003 @ 1:11pm |
 Coolness: 161455 | well I dunno..
I'm not friends with someone who used to be a very good friend of mine and we have almost all the same friends nowone gets in the middle and usually everything works out fine obviously, when we're together there is some hostility or I do what I did yesterday and that was to LEAVE! whatever happened, it is between YOU and YOUR FRIEND your boyfriend has nothing to do with it, sorry. |
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» The_ILL_NaNa replied on Sat Oct 18, 2003 @ 1:15pm |
| Coolness: 38760 | As do I. But, I was just wondering what peoples views are on this. Would you stick by your BF/GF if someone did this to them? Would you still hangout with them, and leave your BF/GF at home alone to hang out with these people?
I am the GF of someone who continues to hold the same respect for the person(s) that has hurt me, and I'm just confused if this is right or not. I know I would stop hanging out with ANYONE who disrespected my BF in this way. Am I being selfish to think this way, or should I feel alone that he doesnt have my back? |
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» BA_Baracus replied on Sat Oct 18, 2003 @ 1:16pm |
| Coolness: 121945 | no i think youre completely on point
but maybe he s trying to fix things up? |
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» The_ILL_NaNa replied on Sat Oct 18, 2003 @ 1:22pm |
| Coolness: 38760 | No, he's not trying to fix anything.
I have spoke to this guy(the friend) numerous time explaining that I didnt say these things and he wont believe me. He also said a lot of nasty things to [ me...Name ] calling and whatever. Not once did my BF satnd up for me and say that it is not nice to say those things to me, or help me try to proove my innosence. He just hangs with these people as he always did in the past, and doesnt see what they did to me is wrong. |
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» BA_Baracus replied on Sat Oct 18, 2003 @ 1:29pm |
| Coolness: 121945 | yes then there are some issues |
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» wisp replied on Sat Oct 18, 2003 @ 1:36pm |
| Coolness: 98230 | well then that person wasnt a good friend to begin with then if he doesnt believe you. |
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» The_ILL_NaNa replied on Sat Oct 18, 2003 @ 1:40pm |
| Coolness: 38760 | And now I realize that he wasnt ever a very good friend to do that to me...
I just find it extreamly frustrating to have my BF still respect the person(s) that hurt me so bad. Why would someone want to hang with people that fucked their GF over??? |
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» Suckballs_bebe replied on Sat Oct 18, 2003 @ 1:42pm |
| Coolness: 67395 | K well sweetie say goodbye to your boyfriend. Cause if ya'll are in a serious relationship and he's sticking with his bullshitter high school e-drama friends, just imagine what he'll do to you later on. ANY guy who lets ANYONE disrespect his girlfriend is a scrub. |
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» Violence_Inc replied on Sat Oct 18, 2003 @ 1:42pm |
 Coolness: 175000 | I'd steal all the friends, cos it's what i do best. |
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» The_ILL_NaNa replied on Sat Oct 18, 2003 @ 1:46pm |
| Coolness: 38760 | No, my BF didnt spread anything about me...
Our friend was told but other individuls that I said somethings about our friend.. I didnt. My BF believes me. Our friend doesnt and as a result, says mean things to me, and stops our friendship. My prob is, is that I thought BF's were suppose to stand up for their BF/GF's, and not continue to hang out with people like that... |
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» BA_Baracus replied on Sat Oct 18, 2003 @ 1:56pm |
| Coolness: 121945 | dont worry bout
the love haters haters of love |
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» wisp replied on Sat Oct 18, 2003 @ 1:58pm |
| Coolness: 98230 | well what exactly do you want him to say?
he believes you isnt that enough? |
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» The_ILL_NaNa replied on Sat Oct 18, 2003 @ 2:02pm |
| Coolness: 38760 | I dont really want him to say anything(maybe tell this guy that it wasnt nice to say the things he said to me) Thats all.....Ya know, stand up for your GF style.
I want him to realize what this guy done was wrong, and that he disrespected me. Basically I'm wondering how he could still have respect for someone who disrespected me. |
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» Miss_Amanda replied on Sat Oct 18, 2003 @ 2:02pm |
| Coolness: 161455 | i agree with chelsea |
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» wisp replied on Sat Oct 18, 2003 @ 2:03pm |
| Coolness: 98230 | yeah i see where you're coming from.
so ask your bf why, then. |
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