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Coping With Loss.
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» lakester replied on Tue Oct 14, 2003 @ 2:48pm |
 Coolness: 60395 | but if the person doesn't want to be with you- why would you possibly want to be with them?? it would definately be a waste of your time
why would you NOT want to move on from someone who wouldn't want to be with you or appreciate you for everything you are? it's not that she doesn't want to be with me, it's that she can't. we bring out the best and the worst in each other. and we haven't figured out how to not bring out the worst in each other. and so we shouldn't be together. thanks for the invite seb, i might take you up on it later this week. |
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» Violence_Inc replied on Tue Oct 14, 2003 @ 2:54pm |
 Coolness: 174805 | pain is not knowledge...pain is pain...now the knowledge of pain is more complex. We shall all become more familiar with that topic with each day when we die a little more, some more than others. |
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» little_sarah replied on Tue Oct 14, 2003 @ 2:56pm |
 Coolness: 122155 | well why would you want to be with someone who brings out the worst in you? instead of being so pessimistic look at the good sides of all of this.
you might find the best in yourself when you're not with her, and you might find someone who ONLY brings out the best in you and not the worst. and it's not because she 'can't', it's because she chooses not to- there's alwyas a hoice, and if she feels it's the best choice and you see why- then accept it and live your life. |
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» Whatee_Guye replied on Tue Oct 14, 2003 @ 2:57pm |
 Coolness: 52260 | Why is this thread so sad, whats the point? |
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» nothingnopenope replied on Tue Oct 14, 2003 @ 3:11pm |
 Coolness: 201940 | Don't forget the old overused saying: It is better to have loved and lost, then to have never loved at all.
Basically, try and remember the best parts of what you had and they will always be with you. Eventually, you will move on.. It might feel as if it will not happen but it does, suddenly it just won't bother you as much. |
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» ashtraygirl replied on Tue Oct 14, 2003 @ 4:01pm |
 Coolness: 90200 | the problem is that these days people are too quick to say "love". people fail to realise the difference between loving someone and being in love with someone.
once you've fallen in love with someone, and i mean REALLY fallen in love, it will never die. you can't tell someone you love them in all honesty and then decide a few weeks/months/years later that you were wrong. to "love" someone is to love them forever regardless of changes, circumstances, fights, blah blah blah. and thats how it should be. |
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» lakester replied on Tue Oct 14, 2003 @ 5:03pm |
| Coolness: 60395 | what we have is love. we've had it for close to three years now. we still love each other.
i think she's the most incredible girl in the world, and i think a lot of people here who know her would agree that she's special. we want to be together, we just have issues that we need to work out. thanks for the advice and words everyone, it's much appreciated. |
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» PitaGore replied on Tue Oct 14, 2003 @ 5:36pm |
 Coolness: 472520 | U rock LAKESTER !
If u wanna hook up message me hey My pad's a peaceful spot... |
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» elixireleven replied on Tue Oct 14, 2003 @ 10:40pm |
 Coolness: 74555 | four things in life we must fulfill: flags. flax. fodder and frigg.
(the roof over your head. the clothes on your back. the food in your belly. and a good scew once in a while) |
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» G__ replied on Tue Oct 14, 2003 @ 10:59pm |
| Coolness: 142080 | when i'm down, i like to go to the gas station, inhale some of that gassy fume goodness, to sterilize the bad nerves, and then i stick the tire filler up my nose, and blow all the bad omens out my head...it's like drycleaning |
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» elixireleven replied on Tue Oct 14, 2003 @ 11:28pm |
| Coolness: 74555 | maybe you should take up yoga gordo. |
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» G__ replied on Tue Oct 14, 2003 @ 11:35pm |
| Coolness: 142080 | yoga???
when i can blast air up my nose... yoga can't be MUCH better than that i mean, AIR, blasting UP your nose... ... |
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» elixireleven replied on Wed Oct 15, 2003 @ 10:49am |
| Coolness: 74555 | there are better things you can put up your nose...
like... uh... fingers? |
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» G__ replied on Wed Oct 15, 2003 @ 10:52am |
| Coolness: 142080 | indeed fingers...
and air |
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» blop replied on Wed Oct 15, 2003 @ 1:13pm |
 Coolness: 201245 | and mescaline! |
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» Violence_Inc replied on Wed Oct 15, 2003 @ 1:32pm |
| Coolness: 174805 | mmmm mesk....I love sugar drips baby! |
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» Agent_Yogurt replied on Wed Oct 15, 2003 @ 6:21pm |
| Coolness: 134325 | icing sugar |
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» lakester replied on Wed Oct 15, 2003 @ 6:45pm |
| Coolness: 60395 | therapy. |
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» wisp replied on Wed Oct 15, 2003 @ 6:49pm |
| Coolness: 98035 | actually, time. |
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» Screwhead replied on Wed Oct 15, 2003 @ 6:51pm |
 Coolness: 686305 | I still say you should stuff yourself with drugs and alcohol you look like a junkie's thanksgiving turkey. |
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