Coping With Loss.
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» mdc replied on Mon Oct 13, 2003 @ 3:44pm |
 Coolness: 149530 | you people all give HORRIBLE advice...
dont TELL people to drink when theyre sad! then theyll be sad forever... fuck... dont mope... move along, keep active laziness doesnt help with the mental state... active lifestyle = more endorphines = happiness |
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» Agent_Yogurt replied on Mon Oct 13, 2003 @ 3:51pm |
| Coolness: 134325 | pat - i agree |
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» Purple_Lee replied on Mon Oct 13, 2003 @ 3:53pm |
 Coolness: 239335 | okay to start with using a drug to deal with shit is the worst thing you could do!!!
When my father passed away from M.S. ...i used a rave to put things into focus....*went to a trance rave and just sat listening/watching people*....those people @ the rave looked like they where having fun & enjoying life...after i sat down with a close friend and used him as a sounding board about things.....talking about things with someone that you care about/feel comfortable with really helps. As for long term...life goes on... Lee |
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» ashtraygirl replied on Mon Oct 13, 2003 @ 5:13pm |
 Coolness: 90200 | depends what i've lost.
prolly sulk for awhile... smoke joints... play playstation. i.e: my life. |
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» beercrack replied on Mon Oct 13, 2003 @ 5:17pm |
| Coolness: 72150 | if u think its chemical u can
reup your serotonin levels with 5-htp |
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» A_Princess replied on Mon Oct 13, 2003 @ 5:58pm |
 Coolness: 62560 | Time heals sometimes, but if its serious enough you'll harbour it forever. You have to face shit head on, confront it. Repressing what has to come out does not make it go away, it just postpones it. And thats a bad idea. Whatevers inside must come out.
I'm all for talking so someone who can listen. Sometimes ppl just like to be confided in so that they can give their 2 cents. Talk to someone who will LISTEN, and will not necessarily talk back. Sometimes u just wanna be heard. |
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» wisp replied on Mon Oct 13, 2003 @ 6:16pm |
| Coolness: 98035 | actually, pat's right. |
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» Screwhead replied on Mon Oct 13, 2003 @ 6:30pm |
 Coolness: 686305 | I still say you should stuff yourself with enough drugs and alcohol to pass for a crackhead thanksgiving turkey. |
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» elixireleven replied on Mon Oct 13, 2003 @ 7:04pm |
| Coolness: 74555 | the one time i heard sharon "bitch and moan" it wasnt a "bitch and moan" it was a fucking monologue.
i felt like i was in the fucking theater without a cyanide pill. ... |
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» Agent_Yogurt replied on Mon Oct 13, 2003 @ 7:11pm |
| Coolness: 134325 | i still havent figured this one out |
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» ashtraygirl replied on Mon Oct 13, 2003 @ 7:28pm |
| Coolness: 90200 | kira... HAHA holy shit... i can't believe you just said that. |
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» blop replied on Mon Oct 13, 2003 @ 7:30pm |
 Coolness: 201245 | i'm sorry kira, next time i'll just let you fade away. |
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» Gone replied on Mon Oct 13, 2003 @ 8:49pm |
| Coolness: 63875 | No disrespect to Pat, but in this case, he's wrong. Fact.
:) |
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» Toltech replied on Mon Oct 13, 2003 @ 9:22pm |
 Coolness: 146135 | yeah well I'm not sure what he means by "distort" your memory....does he mean that you don't remember as well?....maybe forget but it depends on what that loss is.......what time usually does, depending on what's at hand of course, is that it lets u ponder and lets u realise that some aspects of that loss don't matter or that the loss teaches something in the end....to a certain extent, all depending on what's at hand (like I already said).....or u just come to accept that loss, period....but distort your memory?...I'm not saying he's wrong just yet but what I'm saying is that I don't get what he meant by that. |
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» PaT_ replied on Mon Oct 13, 2003 @ 9:53pm |
| Coolness: 117010 | often you wont remember certain scenrio's as well.
sometimes people will make themselfs belive something that didnt happen in order to make things easier to cope with. sometimes people will make themselfs not belive feelings or things that they felt, or that happened in order to cope with things. (denial, " i never really loved them") wtv... you can debate it by saying "through time i came to realize that it wasn't really love" i think thats mostly bullshit, just 'time distorting'. etc... etc...... etc......... |
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» lakester replied on Mon Oct 13, 2003 @ 11:47pm |
 Coolness: 60395 | is hope a good way to cope? |
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» ashtraygirl replied on Tue Oct 14, 2003 @ 12:04am |
| Coolness: 90200 | i dunno... but it rhymes!!! |
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» Gone replied on Tue Oct 14, 2003 @ 1:39am |
| Coolness: 63875 | yeah, haha, i've got a few ex girlfriends who'd like to believe that "through time, they discovered it was never love" hahaha. whatever.
what I'm talking about though, is that with time, most problems heal themselves. feelings change. problems dissapear and priorities shift. if you're emotionally distressed, over time things might change, and down the line, you might find yourself in an entirely different headspace/emospace. hope is a shitty way to cope... if you're hoping in the wrong thing. and by distorting your memory... well, studies have been made which show that optimistic people are the most unrealistic people, but they're also the most happy. people who distort reality get along better with it than people who are more realistic (and pessimistic). distorting memories isnt a bad thing. it might make you happier, in the long run. p.s - im slightly drunk. |
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» nothingnopenope replied on Tue Oct 14, 2003 @ 1:46am |
 Coolness: 201940 | studies show that optimistic people are fucking DRUNK |
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» Gone replied on Tue Oct 14, 2003 @ 1:47am |
| Coolness: 63875 | hahaha, drunk... yet happy. what's wrong with that?
might as well live in a fantasy world if it's funner... |
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