Do You Really Know Someone...!?
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» exactly_like_me replied on Thu Aug 21, 2003 @ 1:30pm |
 Coolness: 42130 | I was thinking recently how sure are you of knowing your friends...!
how sure can you be of your relationship? if you have some problems to deal with and you need help: how many of those friends would give you a hand without judging you. I hope you have at least one... =) quantity doesn t worth anything when problems occur...it s all about quality! |
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» wisp replied on Thu Aug 21, 2003 @ 1:31pm |
 Coolness: 98000 | wheres the game to this |
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» exactly_like_me replied on Thu Aug 21, 2003 @ 1:37pm |
| Coolness: 42130 | sorry if the subject is not silly enough...
I just believe it s meaningfull! =( |
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» wisp replied on Thu Aug 21, 2003 @ 1:40pm |
| Coolness: 98000 | yeah, its not really silly, more meaningful, bad section, but i get what youre saying :) |
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» G__ replied on Thu Aug 21, 2003 @ 1:49pm |
| Coolness: 142045 | the people i hang out with on a daily basis, i trust to be there the next day, ready to get fucked up again, and to be around so i can yell about the little isignificant things that pissed me off that...but not much more than that, but that's fine by me...
i don't have to be someones friend to be able to hear a their problem...just as long as the person is comfortable with being open and i'm comfortable with the situation... I like to think that i'm very trust worthy, though i may not come across like that, it's one of those masked qualities, that, recently, i've been keeping masked, because, it's is definetly something that, from personal experience, gets taken advantage of...so i keep it to myself, and people who might actually care about my thoughts... it's funny though...it seems i neglect the people who mean the most to me... i just hope when i clear my head up, they'll still be there... |
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» exactly_like_me replied on Thu Aug 21, 2003 @ 1:50pm |
| Coolness: 42130 | tks...you re right...I should have post it somewhere else...oh well!
Cat |
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» wisp replied on Thu Aug 21, 2003 @ 1:50pm |
| Coolness: 98000 | yeah, i TOTALLY neglect the ppl that mean the most to me...i dunno why that is though.... |
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» exactly_like_me replied on Thu Aug 21, 2003 @ 2:25pm |
| Coolness: 42130 | Fred you re soooo right...it s too bad you get taken advantage of by people you don t really care about and they can hurt you just enough so you won t be there for the people you care the most...
it s sad |
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» Lady replied on Thu Aug 21, 2003 @ 4:11pm |
 Coolness: 183210 | its too bad you only realise how much someone means to you when they are actually gone...
i know that there a re always a few people that will be there for me and i hope i have not negelected them in anyway... i try and stay in contact with them as much as possible... that way they know just as much as i do that we're always there... |
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» Screwhead replied on Thu Aug 21, 2003 @ 4:22pm |
 Coolness: 686270 | its too bad you only realise how much someone means to you when they are actually gone... Yeah, that's the worst thing ever. Sometimes though, with a little luck, the person whos gone might start to realise that even though you may not have always seemed to be there due to circumstances, that you always were and always will be. Like that stupid footprints poem. |
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» daFTWin replied on Thu Aug 21, 2003 @ 6:22pm |
 Coolness: 277115 | I think you meet alot of people in your life time who you will become friends with and share experience with.. but some might not be around forever, I think a factor in really knowing someone is how long you've known them and what that relationship has evolved into..
I also believe that you can connect with people, lets say that " i feel like i've known you my whole life" feeling, well maybe not to that extent. I do believe that lets say you meet alot of people at one time some may be easier to get along with then others, like you'll automatically feel comfortable with some of them, making it easier to get to know them, (yes some people ARE more open then others but that isnt my point) altho it may not happen with others and may never happen.. not because you dont like them, just because.. hmm I unno why.. maybe because what they are looking for in a friendship isnt something you can give them or vice versa.. I love meeting people and getting to know them.. but when it comes down to getting to "really" know someone.. thats something that takes more time.. and for me to feel that way about someone doesnt happen often. |
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» elixireleven replied on Thu Aug 21, 2003 @ 8:07pm |
| Coolness: 74520 | the people closest to me, though they drift away and do their own thing, are very select. but those three i can always count on no matter what, and i to them, even if we dont talk every day, or every week, or see each other for a month. those are my best relationships and if i didnt have them, i dont know who id be right now. the extent to which i know those three people, well hell there are always loopholes. i lose interest if i know too much - but i can predict what theyll say and how, i can almost see their thought patterns - its the history that makes them who they are that i dont think you can ever absorb fully. but for me, thats what keeps it interesting. |
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» Agent_Yogurt replied on Thu Aug 21, 2003 @ 8:17pm |
| Coolness: 134290 | the amount of time that has passed since the friendship began is irrelevant. i used to think you had to know someone your whole life for it to be meaningful. this isnt true but i do know that knowing someone for longer just strengthens the bond. |
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» PaT_ replied on Fri Aug 22, 2003 @ 7:42am |
| Coolness: 116975 | you only know as much as someone wants you to know about them.... or what side(s) of them you should , or shouldnt know.
you choose how well you want someone to know you... how close you wanna bring someone.... and people change so much, even more so at a younger age that its really hard to actualy say you know someone really well. and with the "i use to think you had to know someone your whole life for it to be meaningful" ... old friends, or friends who`ve had your whole life.... just adds more of a history and past memories, which makes the relationship feel more comfertable and at ease(in my point of view). you can be best friends with someone and think you really know them but in the end you really dont at all... but like i said... people are always changing and evolving....weither it be for the best for worst... true friends, good friends either evolve toghter... or are able to understand/cope/respect/accept/advice/be there no matter what... who can be there in desperate need for a friend... no matter what... to be able to drop everything to lend a hand and know that in time will be returned. a true friend will take a bus at midnight for an hour to your house just so that you wouldnt have to sleep alone on one of those lonely sad nites. |
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» Agent_Yogurt replied on Fri Aug 22, 2003 @ 9:45am |
| Coolness: 134290 | "to be able to drop everything to lend a hand and know that in time will be returned."
this is so troo. to really know that your courtesies and respect and deeds would be returned is what makes someone a real friend. but to have a true friend you have to be one. |
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» mdc replied on Fri Aug 22, 2003 @ 10:53am |
| Coolness: 149495 | i dont think someone who will drop everythign just for yuo is a real friend... unless youre like on the edge of dying or somehting, a person who will drop everything just like that is an idiot...
i wouldnt even want my friends to go out of their way for me a "true" friend cant be defined, every friendship has its own intricacies and complexities... you cant make a template and say, "You do this, so you're a "true" friend!" it isnt a test |
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» Agent_Yogurt replied on Fri Aug 22, 2003 @ 11:02am |
| Coolness: 134290 | i agree but if you are willing to do something for a friend, i guess it is just nice if they are willing to do it in return, that's all. |
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» mdc replied on Fri Aug 22, 2003 @ 11:03am |
| Coolness: 149495 | very true... very very true |
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» G__ replied on Fri Aug 22, 2003 @ 1:50pm |
| Coolness: 142045 | it's so hard to word things properly for me, i hate not being able to describe all the things i wantto say...properly
"a person who will drop everything just like that is an idiot..." i agree and don't, it's circumstantial...in times of actuall need, that is something of respect and plain decency, and is something not to be taken for granted, but if its a drop everything to follow a person around puppy dog styles for nothing really, is an utter waste...the person who drops everything for that...is, a slave almost "i wouldnt even want my friends to go out of their way for me" that's almost like saying you wouldn't do anything for any of your friends. for ANY of my friends, I'd go out of my way to do something for them, if it was something, that i could actually make a difference with, be of some help i can ONLY hope people i know would do the same for me... but it's something i could never ask of people... "the amount of time that has passed since the friendship began is irrelevant" i agree with that, and one thing i've found, alot more since i became much more open towards people...is that many put up a kind of blocker around themselves when dealing with people they don't know, and imediatly hesitate to speak, and give you the cold shoulder right off...seeing as they don't know you, they have no need to be friendly... some of the best times i've had, are with people i didn't know... like a said at the start, i have a very hard time wording myself properly, so if some of this seems kinda weird, it's the best i could do right now, i'd try and explain myself in person, but i'd still jumble myself around, sorry learning disability "you only know as much as someone wants you to know about them.... you choose how well you want someone to know you... how close you wanna bring someone.... " too true |
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» Agent_Yogurt replied on Fri Aug 22, 2003 @ 2:33pm |
| Coolness: 134290 | wow words of wisdom |
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