Ladies, Is It That Bad ?
Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» Intoccabile replied on Wed Mar 30, 2005 @ 11:21pm |
I read this somewhere, just want to know if any of you have experienced this first hand:
" generally speaking girls cattiness is directly proportional to the amount of available dick in the area. " Girls turn into HATERS / BITCHES ( that's a pretty broad generalization ) when there are not enough guys around. Cud be at the workplace, in a club environment, at school, etc. And I quote : " I work with all girls, and they're always nice to each other, but turn around to me and tell me how much they hate each other... because I'm the only guy who works there. heh, but they all love me. " " so tonight i go pick her up and we go clubbing. she had just designed a new outfit and was excited about wearing it. anyway, as soon as we stepped into the club all the women literally just stopped what they were doing and just stared at her. and not in a nice way. i could see she was feeling awkward so we took a walk thru the club, but no matter we went, all she got was stares and bitchy comments. We eventually ended up leaving cos she was being harrassed by guys. And girls kept bumping into her "accidentally". " etc etc. Well to tell the truth I know that girls can get bitchy towards other girls... but a friend of mine says that I might be underestimating the phenomenon. So ladies, the cattiness, IS IT THAT BAD ? |
Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» Nuclear replied on Wed Mar 30, 2005 @ 11:30pm |
Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» Intoccabile replied on Wed Mar 30, 2005 @ 11:35pm |
So they turn into overprotective " watchdogs " ( generalization again ! )
But what if there are a coupla men around, but no couples ? example : workplace I've noticed this at Cours Mont-Royal, girls just keep STARING at each other, and they often make comments on how the other girls are dressed, comments on their choice of shoes, hair, belt, etc. In this case, it's not competition over men, but straight up HATING and that's what I want to understand ! |
Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» blop replied on Thu Mar 31, 2005 @ 12:25am |
actually, girls who judge other girls obsessively are insecure and have low self esteem. kinda like how some guys talk about beating each other up for liking trance. |
Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» moondancer replied on Thu Mar 31, 2005 @ 12:45am |
i agree, even though they can be very beautiful, They are intimidated by the appearance and confidence of otehr girls. We all want to be the best |
Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» daFTWin replied on Thu Mar 31, 2005 @ 9:20am |
Yea, thats pretty much it. Guys are the same except guys just dont say anything then the second whoever they feel intimidated by is gone they diss him or them. |
Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» cvxn replied on Thu Mar 31, 2005 @ 9:46am |
Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» cinderella_soul replied on Thu Mar 31, 2005 @ 9:53am |
I agree with all of the above comments. I think the comments contribute to the understnading of the phenomenon.
In reference to your story punanny bizness, I'm thinking seeing a girl all dressed up, looking attractive, drawing attention can stir up envy and contention in others. Especially because of the value that a "beautiful" woman has in our society. The media is filled with images of these "beautiful" women and how men cannot resist them. Largly, in part by the media and in part by the value in our society of female beautifulness, women have that image of being that one female who 'stops traffic' and sometimes, we struggle with that image more than other times. Plus, the situation doesn't get much better because we don't talk about it enough. So people are stuck dealing with these images, perpetuated but not caused by the media, in their minds, on their own. One one level I think it is a survival instinct... on another level I think the compeition between women is fueled by the capitalism in our society, the media, and other institutions. |
Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» GAK replied on Thu Mar 31, 2005 @ 9:54am |
Originally posted by CHERRYONIONKISS...
actually, girls who judge other girls obsessively are insecure and have low self esteem. kinda like how some guys talk about beating each other up for liking trance. trance sucks.... I'm pretty secure about that... :-) |
Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» Mali replied on Thu Mar 31, 2005 @ 11:25am |
thats why you bring a knife with you.. so if your stared out just pull it out.. and they will all run away :) |
Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» regimental911 replied on Thu Mar 31, 2005 @ 11:27am |
Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» cinderella_soul replied on Thu Mar 31, 2005 @ 11:29am |
Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» neoform replied on Thu Mar 31, 2005 @ 12:33pm |
Originally posted by REGIMENTAL911...
cherry ,shut the fuck up. Your dumb,straight up. so why'd you fuck her then? like ew. |
Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» SebastianPrelar replied on Thu Mar 31, 2005 @ 1:24pm |
Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» GAK replied on Thu Mar 31, 2005 @ 1:35pm |
Originally posted by HEATHER PIE HOLE...
thats why you bring a knife with you.. so if your stared out just pull it out.. and they will all run away :) i always have my mouth-piece on me.... |
Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» flatlinedive replied on Thu Mar 31, 2005 @ 1:39pm |
it's only bad if you give a fuck what other people think of you
girls or guys generally though, girls are catty behind your back and guys just fight and get it outta their systems |
Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» blop replied on Thu Mar 31, 2005 @ 2:18pm |
Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» regimental911 replied on Thu Mar 31, 2005 @ 2:32pm |
ok,so were not gonna go on for 3 pages about who is smarter.
Cherry,i dont know what the fuck your problem is,but you need to exclude me permanently from your thoughts and words,it's highly recomended.If your boyfriend can do it so can you.If you want ,go ahead and keep aggravating me.Either way,your a retard.SHUT THE FUCK UP. Keep my name out of your mouth and i'll keep my wee wee out of your boyfriend. |
Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» neoform replied on Thu Mar 31, 2005 @ 6:18pm |
Originally posted by REGIMENTAL911...
ok,so were not gonna go on for 3 pages about who is smarter. SOUNDS LIKE A BET TO MEEE! |
Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» regimental911 replied on Thu Mar 31, 2005 @ 6:23pm |
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