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Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» o_skoo_bigwheela replied on Fri Feb 4, 2005 @ 8:30pm
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I have a problem, a serious one.
What do you do when there is someone in your life, that keeps taking your realities and things that you have gone thru in yer life and make them their own.

Just like intimate things you have shared about your life and this person just passes them on as their own...
Not neccecarily (meh for the spelling) taking over my personality but taking over my "vécu" and making it their own...

This is something that is REALLY going on right now in ma environment and I an having probs dealing with it...any advice.
Humor welcome if you can't think of anything ;P
Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» El_Presidente replied on Fri Feb 4, 2005 @ 8:33pm
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i knew someone like that before. Tell that person off. avoid him/her
Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» elixireleven replied on Fri Feb 4, 2005 @ 8:34pm
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a large knife. a shovel. and the nevada desert.
Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» o_skoo_bigwheela replied on Fri Feb 4, 2005 @ 8:35pm
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It's a bit difficult, the person werks w/ me. :(
Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» o_skoo_bigwheela replied on Fri Feb 4, 2005 @ 8:35pm
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Originally posted by ELIXIRELEVEN....

a large knife. a shovel. and the nevada desert.


LOL
Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» Samwise replied on Fri Feb 4, 2005 @ 8:43pm
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quit yer job?
Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» o_skoo_bigwheela replied on Fri Feb 4, 2005 @ 8:45pm
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Originally posted by SCOTTY WOOFERSON...

quit yer job?


hmmm...thought about it.
nah not really, itsa good job, good moula.
Honestly tho...I stopped sitting around him tho to not tell him anything about me..
Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» Samwise replied on Fri Feb 4, 2005 @ 9:02pm
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Originally posted by O SKOO BIGWHEELA...

Originally posted by Scotty Wooferson...

quit yer job?


hmmm...thought about it.
nah not really, itsa good job, good moula.
Honestly tho...I stopped sitting around him tho to not tell him anything about me..


where u work at?
Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» Lone_Star replied on Sat Feb 5, 2005 @ 8:06am
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Tell him shit that didn't happen to you... if he uses that: try again, but this time make it show to him or her that you're totally joking or just unsure of what the hell you're talking about.

Just quickly cut the conversation and say you're busy.

You can have fun with this.
Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» wisp replied on Sat Feb 5, 2005 @ 10:20am
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just stop telling him things about you obviously.
Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» Zz.ee.vV replied on Sat Feb 5, 2005 @ 4:40pm
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jesus what kinda suggestions are these

the only one remotely making sense is Chelsea

its really simple.... IGNORE. Minimize contact to necessities (work related I guess) only. Dont waste time on this shit and dont let it phase you.

Be yourself. What everyone else does is their business and/or their problem.
Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» o_skoo_bigwheela replied on Sun Feb 6, 2005 @ 1:23am
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Originally posted by ZE`EV ...

jesus what kinda suggestions are these

the only one remotely making sense is Chelsea

its really simple.... IGNORE. Minimize contact to necessities (work related I guess) only. Dont waste time on this shit and dont let it phase you.

Be yourself. What everyone else does is their business and/or their problem.


Thanks I really needed some outside advice cos, the point I was at was just overwhelming i guess and I couldn't concentrate or think straight for that matter.
I feel stronger for some reason now and can look at it more as being his problem and how I can just remove myself from this situation. :D
Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» Lone_Star replied on Sun Feb 6, 2005 @ 4:30pm
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coooooooooooooooool so fake.
Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» neoform replied on Sun Feb 6, 2005 @ 4:37pm
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very fake.
Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» cinderella_soul replied on Mon Feb 7, 2005 @ 1:16am
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I've met people who have tried to "steal" my experience and make it their own. But if they have not experienced the thing themselves, then they won't truly know what it is like. So eventually they may come to look like idiots having assimilated an experience that they knew nothing about.
I, agree, keep staying away! Or confront the person about it. But he will probably just denye it.....
what doesn't kill you..may just make you suffer.. sorry I did not want to resist... but you know...
will make you stronger...
don't get me wrong...
my intentions are good -hearted.

I wish you the best!
Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» Mali replied on Mon Feb 7, 2005 @ 1:16am
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sounds like they dont think their own life is as exciting as everyone elses. This person seems to have some issues they need to go through. Maybe they just like pretending to be other people... keeps them going. Sure they are someone they are not but if it makes them happy.. then who cares?
Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» cinderella_soul replied on Mon Feb 7, 2005 @ 1:18am
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"sounds like they dont think...exciting as everyone elses"... agreed.
Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» Zz.ee.vV replied on Mon Feb 7, 2005 @ 1:29pm
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Originally posted by O SKOO BIGWHEELA...

Originally posted by Ze`ev ...

jesus what kinda suggestions are these

the only one remotely making sense is Chelsea

its really simple.... IGNORE. Minimize contact to necessities (work related I guess) only. Dont waste time on this shit and dont let it phase you.

Be yourself. What everyone else does is their business and/or their problem.


Thanks I really needed some outside advice cos, the point I was at was just overwhelming i guess and I couldn't concentrate or think straight for that matter.
I feel stronger for some reason now and can look at it more as being his problem and how I can just remove myself from this situation. :D


Anytime :) Good luck! Just remember, there is no need to 'get back at him', it's just a waste of time and besides - if he acts fake he is bound to fuck up and make a goof of himself one way or another. People like that are their own punishment.

Always remember... imitation is the highest form of flattery.
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