??not My Child??
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» Nuclear replied on Fri Feb 6, 2004 @ 5:17pm |
 Coolness: 2604290 | When did I ever say I wanted to molest my children... Are you talking about the story that I made for my english cegep class... If you are then it's a story and I can understand how some people don't know stories from reality. Unlike some people I can keep a girlfriend for more then a week, unlike some people I don't go around fucking the world because it feels good. All in all a story is a story and don't mix those up with real life... And now that you brough me into this mess I will start posting my oppinions if it feels right...
First off I don't think any girl who is under the age of 25 is able to raise a child properly... Your life will be wrecked and I know in your head your thinking "this is my baby it's a part of me" but trust me I went out with a girl who had a kid for a while and although she ended up being fine, she will never deni the fact that her life was lost when she had the kid... I should not say lost but it was changed... And I don't know if it was changed for the best or worse, but it made it much harder... Whatever the case good luck with your problems and please stop talking about me as if you know me, cause just like we don't know you, you don't know me... |
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» lakester replied on Fri Feb 6, 2004 @ 5:20pm |
 Coolness: 59985 | Alex will be given legal rights only if you're judged to be an unfit mother. Are you worried about that? Apparently, you're an innocent angel, so you have nothing to worry about.
If Alex is indeed still a drug addict as you claim he is, then he will not be granted custody rights if a DNA tests confirms him as the father. So if you're holding out on DNA tests, it's for your own, selfish personal reasons. Either you know Alex is clean and you don't want him to have custody just to spite him or you know you're an unfit mother but you still don't want your child taken away. Which one is it? Do the right thing. Allow the paternity test to be taken. |
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» PitaGore replied on Fri Feb 6, 2004 @ 5:27pm |
 Coolness: 472110 | Nat ; i admire u too hey ...
Never mentionned anything negative towards u .. Being a parent's the most beautiful thing .. Probably the hardest too ... Seems easy but its not ... U gotta re-invent your life from a to z And think without your own selfish involvment ... U carry one's survival and development on your shoulders ...and sometimes its heavy .. |
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» lakester replied on Fri Feb 6, 2004 @ 5:32pm |
| Coolness: 59985 | Also, are you confirming that Alex is the father? You said "When it's proven that Alex is the father" and not "If it's proven".
So if he's the father, why are you running around saying otherwise? If you care about your son at all, do the right thing. And don't try and justify going out and getting rip-roaring drunk while your kid is at home. It's unjustifiable. That's like saying "I went out and murdered my boss to reduce to stress in my life so I could better raise my child". That's a lame excuse. Going out and getting drunk is escaping your stress and problems, it's not fixing or dealing with the stress of problems. As for only going out twice in seven months, that means you haven't gone out since July. I call bullshit on that. |
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» PitaGore replied on Fri Feb 6, 2004 @ 5:34pm |
| Coolness: 472110 | The point is
ALEX LOVES RYLEIGH Deeply and truely That is a fact Whatever the issue ... |
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» hayley replied on Sat Feb 7, 2004 @ 3:03am |
 Coolness: 82950 | the same way that Alex made it public that i shoot jib, im going to make this IMPORTANT piece of info public. Im not inherantly a spiteful/vengeful person, but what im about to say is for the best of nat and most of all lil Rhyleigh.
Last weeknd while speeking with Alex...low and behold.. wen i unveiled the fact i shoot jib (oh yes i do everyone o the drama)... he let me know he was on MDMA and doing lines of blow.... now hmm... this is tricky.. but wud i rather have a mom who cares genuinely for me and who just needed a lil "break" so that inturn she could in fact take care of her child better - and im not making allowance for the fact that she was apparently "dragged" off the dance floor but hey it happens to the best of us - or a father who STILL by the way owes me 70 bux, does blow and pills which according to alex n nimi is not the conduct of a parent, and who has no legitimate claim to anyones respect anyways because of the way hes fukt so many people over...mm unduly harsh i confess... but definitely NOT the conduct of a guy who wants to be a father to this child! im sorry for fuking attacking the world right now. but its gone far enough and this info should never have been withheld.. i feel like a hypocrite for doing this on ravewave... but hey this is where it started and where its going to end. |
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» hayley replied on Sat Feb 7, 2004 @ 3:03am |
| Coolness: 82950 | and as much as i can sympathize with the father wanting to see the child and yada yada.. if that kid is put in social service/foster family... not only will HE have more serious emotional issues when hes older... but think of NAT. Although this may seem like an unfair comment, a mother is inately more "attached" (for lack of a btter word) to her child. She bore that child for a lil more than 7 months , went throuugh the twinge of birthing it... and has taken care of him alone for all these months. As biased as this may sound, a mother feels a deeper connection with her child than a father. Its a part of her body. her flesh and bone. and her core and ultimate reason to carry on day to day. Taking this kid from her would kill her. I mean fuck SHED KILL for him. Shed sacrifice her ENTIRE LIFE for him. now please dont tell me shes unfit to raise her son. ANd please dont tell me that putting the child into social care will be the best alternative for ALL partys involved.
Nat Alex n Rhyleigh need to sit down, legitimize (or unlegittimize??) the paternity of the child, and sort things out on their own. Alex knows where she is now and this should no longer be in a public domain. For Christ sake... this thread should be deleted. Ive made my point and im DONE with this thread. Bye |
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» lakester replied on Sat Feb 7, 2004 @ 3:39am |
| Coolness: 59985 | Originally posted by JIGGAWAT...
Nat Alex n Rhyleigh need to sit down, legitimize (or unlegittimize??) the paternity of the child, and sort things out on their own. smartest thing i've heard you say. i don't condone alex using drugs, and if he is indeed still using them, i don't think has a right to be a father anymore them nat has a right to be a mother. but he still has the right to find out if he is the father. and if he is the father and neither of them can come to an acceptable solution as to how ryleigh should be taken care of, than unfortunately the courts will have to decide this. you say nat would give her life for this child? then why was she trying to have him killed? |
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» hayley replied on Sat Feb 7, 2004 @ 4:20am |
| Coolness: 82950 | Alex more than rightfully deserves to know if Rhyleigh is his. Its unfair to be in this proverbial limbo, both for him and his theoretical son. Imagine not knowing ur real father...or not knowing if you infact ARE a father. ALthough Ive obviously never been in his shoes, i can certainly commiserate. Despite his inability to actually see his/the child, i know he has truly developed a fondness , or more likely even, love for him.
But he derserves no more than nat and until he straightens himself up and by no means should he be accredited with the same priveledges as the mother. But he honestly does deserve to know. and there is no two ways about that. And about trying to "kill" him. It was before he was born. She wanted to miscarry. And i think that that is in its own bizarre way completely (although notIDEAL behaviour)logical. Being a teenage girl facing the reality that in a few short months time, she could quite possibly be having a child. Its not inconceivable that she was frighten. felt alone, and did not want to have the baby. Of course ur going to say that theire is always the option of aborting it...but that in itself takes a tremendous toll on someones dispositon and ultimate well-being... she was afraid lost and saw no other escape. Until she realized she didnt need to escape because it dawned upon her that the thing that at the time was likely no mor ethan a mere embryo inside her, could potentially be her son/daughter and take life. She realized that delibarately miscarrying was not the solution, and that if she dindt wanna abort it, shed keep it and raise it as it was intended to be raise. there |
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» nothingnopenope replied on Sat Feb 7, 2004 @ 4:09pm |
 Coolness: 201530 | jiggawat: alex didn't reveal anything about you that people don't already know... We all know that people are shooting up gib... Among other things |
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» Miss_Amanda replied on Sun Feb 8, 2004 @ 1:06am |
 Coolness: 160850 | *thanks Scott for another great post* |
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» Lady replied on Sun Feb 8, 2004 @ 2:28am |
 Coolness: 182835 | agreed |
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» Mali replied on Sun Feb 8, 2004 @ 8:27am |
 Coolness: 202420 | if you want to talk about drugs, write it in the Drug Prevention board people.. |
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» Lady replied on Sun Feb 8, 2004 @ 12:51pm |
| Coolness: 182835 | its not really a talk about drugs its more of a statement of what some people know is how i see it.. but lets not get into that |
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» nothingnopenope replied on Sun Feb 8, 2004 @ 3:50pm |
| Coolness: 201530 | well it will always come back to drugs.. maybe one day people will realize that it plays a role in many parts of life, especially if you have a problem.. |
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» eltopo replied on Sun Feb 8, 2004 @ 4:09pm |
 Coolness: 63215 | a problem... or a kid
responsibilities to life ...so sad to see that hayley's still shooting death - i mean meth |
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» neoform replied on Sun Feb 8, 2004 @ 4:15pm |
 Coolness: 339970 | Originally posted by MEDIOCRE CAT...
well it will always come back to drugs.. maybe one day people will realize that it plays a role in many parts of life, especially if you have a problem.. if? who doesn't have problems? |
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» eltopo replied on Sun Feb 8, 2004 @ 4:17pm |
| Coolness: 63215 | my psychologist said there are actually people who don't have addictive personalities or problems with drugs |
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» Hhm replied on Sun Feb 8, 2004 @ 4:40pm |
 Coolness: 56320 | i have a lotta friends who are drug free..
but im not dat bad...i only smoke weed |
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» little_sarah replied on Sun Feb 8, 2004 @ 5:47pm |
 Coolness: 121745 | that's what they all say |
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